Last weekend I went out on a date for the first time since coming out! Ironically, though, it was with a straight cis-man…who was open […]
Coming Out…Conflict and Resolution
Coming out is such a complex experience. The person coming out sees, feels and witnesses things differently but for those around them, nothing has really […]
Dancing Demons on Lava
I had a realization this past weekend. I’ve got demons. I’ve seen them. I’ve cowered from them. Can they become my friends? As many of […]
Affair of the Heart
This time, last year, Sep 2020, my heart was broken. I put all of myself into loving a man who wasn’t able to love me […]
No Wonder I Chose Wonder Woman
I am in awe. I just learned something about Wonder Woman that I didn’t know until today. And it makes me love her and her […]
Switch it ON…
I’m putting a big insecurity of mine out here and am curious how it lands for you…and maybe some dom vs sub exploration. When you […]
Revolutionary Love
This term, revolutionary love, is something that struck me today while talking with friends. I have to give credit to one of them, who actually […]
Boundaries By Choice
I’ve been exploring my use of boundaries. Being Indian, familial boundaries are so loose, you don’t really see any. As a kid I loved it, […]
What is Real?
What is Real? If you read my last blog, you know I publicly came out as Gender Fluid last week. That felt very real to […]
Watermelon Sugar
Many of you may be wondering where I’ve disappeared to and why I haven’t been posting much. This post should explain a lot…and by the […]
It’s Been A While…Shame…You Came Back?
It’s been a while and I have really missed all of you! I never thought I could stay away for as long as I did […]
I’m Not Ready
I’ve been sitting with my thoughts about this subject of not being ready, for three days. I’ve been hesitating to write, because this is such […]
Coming out of the Dark
This past week has been a dark one for me. I have a fatigued state of being…feeling drained. This feeling is very unusual for me […]
Not Dating-What’s My Excuse?
As many of you know, since I had my last breakup in the Fall, I haven’t gone back to dating. I’ve been wondering what’s holding […]
Beauty-who decides?
Who decides what’s beautiful? I read an article this morning and ever since that time, I have been burning up. It was about a beauty […]
Identity and Belonging
Tomorrow is a new moon. Last night was Maha Shivratri and the night of the dark moon. Yesterday was also the unwelcome one year landmark […]
Play as a Wild Womxn!
Through the coaching program I’m uncovering a very uncomfortable truth about my relationship between play and sex…. It never existed. Because I haven’t let my […]
Embodiment with Synchronicity and Surrender
As I dig deeper into my course work (4 weeks completed today), I see myself living in a parallel to what I am studying…a real […]
You’ve Been Scared of Love
The Weeknd’s song, “I Feel it Coming”, has some of the most raw lyrics…’you’ve been scared of love and what it did to you. You […]
Listen to the Voice in Your Head
When you read this title it may be misleading….that voice in your head that always knows… Our society has debunked the belief in yourself. We […]