Remote Love

So it’s all possible! You can fall in love during COVID-19! Magic can happen. All the things you want in and from love can and […]

Peeling Off Layers

One of the most important lessons I am learning through dating is the reaffirmation that I am constantly peeling off layers of myself. Each interaction […]

Boyfriend I Haven’t Met Yet…

I have big news! My relationship has progressed! I have a boyfriend! And the funny thing… I haven’t met him…! I’ll pause here for you […]

The Romantic Revolution Returns!

It’s said that history repeats itself…and yes, I’m a believer. We have been experiencing that in so many ways through the COVID-19 pandemic. Going back […]

Bumbling to Burst the Bubble!

I am back to online dating! I’ve gone to the place of acceptance that our new reality is online dating again! I reflect on how […]

International Summer Solstice Bday Party!

Thanks to my parents, I was given the best birthdate of the year! The first day of summer and the longest day of the year-June […]

It’s So Much More Than a Mask

So I really can’t make myself do it. Not with what I know. I can’t take off the mask. The date was supposed to be […]

Taking Off the Masks

So…I’m entering another comfort zone challenge… As you know, I have a huge crush (my zoom speed dater) and he appears to share the same […]

Rise Up and SPEAK!

One of the reasons I started this blog was to create a forum for myself and others to speak up. I am tired of the […]

Wearing Masks-A Shitload of Kindness

This past week was filled with a lot of mixed feelings. Gratitude, reluctance, frustration, love… I discovered a pattern that brings me towards men who […]

Twilight Zone-5 Minute Dating and Zooming!

So, I had a great 4th date last week with that man I met on zoom (let’s call him and other men I meet on […]

The World Turned Upside Down

I have been struggling to write since I blinked and saw our beautiful world turn upside down with the COVID pandemic. Our world still is […]

Where’s Waldo?

So, last year, while I was actively dating online I met someone who I shared instant chemistry with. For the sake of privacy, I am […]

Valentine’s Came and Left…

Last Friday, Feb 14th was the Hallmark celebration of love. I remember my first Valentine’s Day like it was yesterday. I get all warm and […]

Climbing the Mountain

When I advise someone to meditate (which is almost everyone), it’s usually the ones who can’t sit still who cringe the most. And they are […]

Entering 2020-The Year of Loving Relationship…with YOU!

I realized that next year, 2020, will be the ONLY year that we will be able to experience a year with the same double digits […]

Now What…??

As of this past Saturday, I have officially discontinued the online dating apps, so am now back to drawing board! HOW will I meet men, […]

Sex Now or Later?

Once I found those catfish I entered into another state of mind. A state of mind where I decided I was done with online dating […]

Journeying through the Dating-Online and Beyond!

I have truly been on a journey! With the definition of journey being ‘traveling from one place to another’, I have traveled within myself in […]