Falling In Love…Through a Mask

I’m smitten! We met!!! And it was delicious. Beautiful. Exactly what I was hoping for…and more, actually. Because both of us felt the same way. […]

Boyfriend I Haven’t Met Yet…

I have big news! My relationship has progressed! I have a boyfriend! And the funny thing… I haven’t met him…! I’ll pause here for you […]

Bumbling to Burst the Bubble!

I am back to online dating! I’ve gone to the place of acceptance that our new reality is online dating again! I reflect on how […]

International Summer Solstice Bday Party!

Thanks to my parents, I was given the best birthdate of the year! The first day of summer and the longest day of the year-June […]

Taking Off the Masks

So…I’m entering another comfort zone challenge… As you know, I have a huge crush (my zoom speed dater) and he appears to share the same […]

Twilight Zone-5 Minute Dating and Zooming!

So, I had a great 4th date last week with that man I met on zoom (let’s call him and other men I meet on […]

Boars, Coyotes and Dolphins

We’ve entered a world where Zoom seems to be the most recent master of the universe. School, exercise classes, dance classes, music lessons, doctor’s appointments, […]

The World Turned Upside Down

I have been struggling to write since I blinked and saw our beautiful world turn upside down with the COVID pandemic. Our world still is […]

Where’s Waldo?

So, last year, while I was actively dating online I met someone who I shared instant chemistry with. For the sake of privacy, I am […]

Valentine’s Came and Left…

Last Friday, Feb 14th was the Hallmark celebration of love. I remember my first Valentine’s Day like it was yesterday. I get all warm and […]

Climbing the Mountain

When I advise someone to meditate (which is almost everyone), it’s usually the ones who can’t sit still who cringe the most. And they are […]

Being Swept Off My Feet

My social experiment of 2020 is working well…so far! 29 days off the dating sites and I’m still here! The plan to find my twin […]

Can We Be Friends?

My question for the week-is it possible for you to be friends with someone you dated before? I have a number of friends who are […]

ABRACADABRA!

My update from last week for you IS people don’t change…unless they want to. But you may already know that. So, I have a story […]

New Year, New Hope

Welcome to 2020! The year of loving relationship with myself…(and men, I hope)! It’s been a fascinating start of a new year, actually. The journey […]

Entering 2020-The Year of Loving Relationship…with YOU!

I realized that next year, 2020, will be the ONLY year that we will be able to experience a year with the same double digits […]

Now What…??

As of this past Saturday, I have officially discontinued the online dating apps, so am now back to drawing board! HOW will I meet men, […]

Sex Now or Later?

Once I found those catfish I entered into another state of mind. A state of mind where I decided I was done with online dating […]

Catfish are People?

I grew up thinking catfish was a type of seafood that was best served Cajun style. In my adulthood I have learned that catfish is […]

To Be Jaded or Not To Be Jaded?

I have tried really hard not to feel jaded during this roller coaster ride and so far I have been successful, but it’s damn tiring […]