Last weekend I went out on a date for the first time since coming out! Ironically, though, it was with a straight cis-man…who was open […]
International Summer Solstice Bday Party!
Thanks to my parents, I was given the best birthdate of the year! The first day of summer and the longest day of the year-June […]
It’s So Much More Than a Mask
So I really can’t make myself do it. Not with what I know. I can’t take off the mask. The date was supposed to be […]
Taking Off the Masks
So…I’m entering another comfort zone challenge… As you know, I have a huge crush (my zoom speed dater) and he appears to share the same […]
Rise Up and SPEAK!
One of the reasons I started this blog was to create a forum for myself and others to speak up. I am tired of the […]
Human Connection
My latest observation about Zooming is bringing me closer to an understanding of human connection. Many of us say we are missing that human connection-in […]
Repeated Disappearing Act
Just as I settled into the non-zooming idea of being single during this COVID quarantine period, a man from my past reappeared. Life is full […]
Wearing Masks-A Shitload of Kindness
This past week was filled with a lot of mixed feelings. Gratitude, reluctance, frustration, love… I discovered a pattern that brings me towards men who […]
Twilight Zone-5 Minute Dating and Zooming!
So, I had a great 4th date last week with that man I met on zoom (let’s call him and other men I meet on […]
Sidewalk Wedding, COVID Fatigue & Found Insecurity
OMG, one week in my life feels like one year! Fair warning-this is going to be the LONGEST blog yet. Seriously! So get your drink […]
Video Sex is the New Black
So I had my date-times two! Our first date was on Monday-we talked for 1.5 hours on Face Time and it was awesome! Despite the […]
Boars, Coyotes and Dolphins
We’ve entered a world where Zoom seems to be the most recent master of the universe. School, exercise classes, dance classes, music lessons, doctor’s appointments, […]