Heartbroken and Miserable

I spent a long time wondering how to write this particular post and what type of a reception it would have. This particular post will […]

Let Your Spirit Soar

I’ve had a few women reach out to me talking about the liberation that they need or want from social constructs either related to their […]

The Cutest Cock Blocker

My cookie monster (that’s what I’m calling my new love right now-I don’t think I know anyone who loves cookies as much, other than our […]

Honest Love

It’s really hard to be vulnerable in front of others. And it’s one of the best feelings when you can be and are seen. That’s […]

Mo Anam Cara

The Celtic language describes a soulmate as the blending of two souls together with the words ‘mo anam cara’. When two individuals find their souls […]

It All Happened In A Hammock

Remember that one thing I was missing…and waiting for? Well… It happened… We kissed! And it was MAGICAL!! It was magical with all the prose […]

Remote Love

So it’s all possible! You can fall in love during COVID-19! Magic can happen. All the things you want in and from love can and […]

Peeling Off Layers

One of the most important lessons I am learning through dating is the reaffirmation that I am constantly peeling off layers of myself. Each interaction […]

Falling In Love…Through a Mask

I’m smitten! We met!!! And it was delicious. Beautiful. Exactly what I was hoping for…and more, actually. Because both of us felt the same way. […]

Boyfriend I Haven’t Met Yet…

I have big news! My relationship has progressed! I have a boyfriend! And the funny thing… I haven’t met him…! I’ll pause here for you […]

The Romantic Revolution Returns!

It’s said that history repeats itself…and yes, I’m a believer. We have been experiencing that in so many ways through the COVID-19 pandemic. Going back […]

Bumbling to Burst the Bubble!

I am back to online dating! I’ve gone to the place of acceptance that our new reality is online dating again! I reflect on how […]

International Summer Solstice Bday Party!

Thanks to my parents, I was given the best birthdate of the year! The first day of summer and the longest day of the year-June […]

It’s So Much More Than a Mask

So I really can’t make myself do it. Not with what I know. I can’t take off the mask. The date was supposed to be […]

Taking Off the Masks

So…I’m entering another comfort zone challenge… As you know, I have a huge crush (my zoom speed dater) and he appears to share the same […]

Rise Up and SPEAK!

One of the reasons I started this blog was to create a forum for myself and others to speak up. I am tired of the […]

Human Connection

My latest observation about Zooming is bringing me closer to an understanding of human connection. Many of us say we are missing that human connection-in […]

Repeated Disappearing Act

Just as I settled into the non-zooming idea of being single during this COVID quarantine period, a man from my past reappeared. Life is full […]

Wearing Masks-A Shitload of Kindness

This past week was filled with a lot of mixed feelings. Gratitude, reluctance, frustration, love… I discovered a pattern that brings me towards men who […]

Twilight Zone-5 Minute Dating and Zooming!

So, I had a great 4th date last week with that man I met on zoom (let’s call him and other men I meet on […]